Hi,
I’m Cyndy Hoskey, a retired educator
that can’t seem to stop teaching.
I live in Westerville and I have three children, son, Mark and
his wife, Cindy, of Chesterville, Oh.; daughter, Ellen and her husband,
Nigel, of Phoenix, Az. and
daughter, Barbara and her husband, Mel, of Jackson, Mi., four
grandchildren, Stacy, Amy, Matt,
and Brianna, two granddogs ,three grandcats and two cats of my own.
I
was born Cynthia Hunter Kay in
Waterbury, Connecticut, three
score and seven years ago.. Why
such an elaborate name for a new baby? Well, it was my mother’s dream
to name her first daughter after her great-grand mother, so I have been
called “Cynthia” only by people that” don’t know me“, ever
since. We lived on the Kay
farm in Cheshire ,Conn.. with my Dad’s parents. My Grandpa Kay,
unhappy with my name, said that “Cindy
is a dog’s name“. He had offered Mom one hundred dollars(a
pretty penny in those days and she refused it) to name me after an
ancestor of his. I was a child with a mind of my own and it was
suggested that if you wanted me to do something, just tell me to do the
opposite.( I find this hard to believe since I am such a ”nice
cooperative” person today) All through my childhood I heard my Mother
say that she “hopes I have a child just like me!!!“ There are old
photos of me at the farm sitting on a rock surrounded by poultry
and it surely must have
been meaningful , for my home decor is brimming with these same kind of
critters today. When I was
two, we followed
Dad’s older sister’s family
out to Columbus, Ohio where he was assured of a job, Tool and Die
maker. Every summer, after
the end of WW2, we traveled HOME, as my parents called it, to Conn. With
Mother’s encouragement, I developed a hunger for reading(I still feel
that way today) at an early age and haunted the local libraries with
her. Picnics , concerts,
and swimming also
rounded out those early years before my sister Edie was born. AND even
with Edie aboard, we girls still
enjoyed that kind of life but, I must say that housekeeping was not a
priority
We
lived in the old Beechwold area of Columbus on Garden Road . Here
my brother John and sister Jane came home from the hospital. Now, there
were four of us to go swimming at Glengary pool every day all summer
long with Mom. Do you get the idea that swimming was important to our
Mom?
(
She will later invest forty eight years into a swim teaching and
coaching career in the Worthington area and at Columbus Academy and even
have the Barb Kay Mini Swim Meet named after her) but at this point she
just made swimming a daily part of all of our
lives. And I mention this because I am still teaching swimming
today, because of her.
In
1951 we moved to Worthington, and I enjoyed having friends from the old
neighborhood meet new ones from Worthington.
I had great times in my high school years and graduated in 1955
(and am currently serving on a committee to put together our 50th class
reunion).
I
’ve always been very
interested in music (voice, guitar and piano) and attended OSU School of
Music for two and a half years. In 1958, I dropped out of college to
marry a high school sweetheart and from this marriage came my greatest
treasures, my son and daughters. My husband was a State Highway
Patrolman and in 1968 ,when we were stationed in the tiny hamlet of
Chesterville, Ohio, I applied for an elementary teaching position in the
Highland Local Schools system. They
hired me on the basis that I would complete my B.A. in Education.(
Sadly, the marriage was not to be, and I found myself alone, raising my
three, teaching grade school with a “great accent on music“, and
going to OSU for six summers to complete my degree.) Thank God for my
parents who allowed me to bring my gang down to stay with them every day
(joining Mom and my youngest brother Kody at the pool) ) while I hit
the books at OSU six Summer
Quarters. I got my BA in Education in 1973(giving me the right to earn
what other “six year teachers” were) and life became a little easier
for us.
In
1988, with son Mark, now
married, and Ellen and Barbie in college, I decided to sell the
house in Chesterville, circa 1840, on the National Register Of Homes ,
to Mark and his wife, Cynthia.(I’m now, Cyndy Hoskey and she’s Cindy
Hoskey) and purchased a
condo in Westerville. I
still taught in
Chesterville and traveled about seventy five miles a day round trip to
do so. BUT, I loved being
back in civilization ,with theaters, restaurants, wonderful libraries,
places to go and people to see and soon began attending OSU again
working on my Masters Degree. in Children’s Literature which I
completed by 1994. Every summer I taught swimming for Mom and when I
retired from Highland in 1999, I began teaching swimming for her, three times a week. I also volunteer both at the Statehouse
doing tours with school groups and at the Ohio
Historical Center doing programs in the Museum and the
Village. Recently
I joined a group A Circle Of
Grandparents, and have adopted a fourth grade class in
Worthington Park School. I enjoy visiting them each month with a
character- building -themed -lesson.
I
have been a Victorian Bouquet Red Hatter for over a year now (boy, did I
call the right phone, 882-2079, number a year ago) and I LOVE it!!!!!]
That my sister Edie is also a part of it,, only makes it more
special. I had the most
delightful experience in period costume recently as I took my Red Hat
sister flowers on a tour of the Statehouse. Red Hats Rule!!!!!