I
was born Lois Mae Cullison, June 29, 1936, in Windsor Colorado, the
oldest of four children. Raised in this little town in northern Colorado
was the best thing that could happen to anyone. We played kick the can,
run sheep run, and all the other old-fashioned games until dark and we
couldn’t see to find our way home. No one ever locked their doors. It
was a very special life. My Mom wore dresses, baked, was superintendent
of our Sunday school, helped start Rainbow Girls and was an all-around
“Donna Reed”. My Dad worked shifts in the local sugar factory, did
carpenter work in the summer and was the overseer of my Granddad’s
farms.
In
High School, I played piano in a dance band, sax in the H.S. concert
band and was a majorette. My favorite class? Band. And then Math. I
spent two years in Secretarial School at Colorado State University, then
called “Aggies”, where I was also a majorette. I became known in my
dorm as a clown during my sophomore year. I think I was covering up a
basic shyness. (They asked me to take the first stage out of town). I
then became a teller at the First National Bank in Greeley and in 1957,
got married to my best friend’s brother, Virgil Tongish.. We had two
children,
Valerie
and Virgil Jr. Virg managed the local lumberyard, I did the bookwork and
we drew houseplans on the side.
In
1971 my husband was transferred to Ohio. We lived in Marshallville for
15 years. While there, I was Assistant to the Treasurer at Orrville City
Schools and worked for H & R Block in Wooster one year. The kids
grew up and went away to college at Otterbein. I went to night school at
Wayne College, a branch of Akron U and became a member of Alpha Sigma
Lambda. My traumatic experiences started with losing most of my hair,
having a large breast tumor, and two 4-foot floods in the basement of
our home. Such fun.
I
left my husband and moved back to Colorado to spend time with my aging
parents and siblings. While there I worked as bookkeeper for the County
Clerk at Motor V in Greeley Colorado, records clerk at the police
department, postmistress at a postal contract store and held various
other positions, including selling Princess House crystal. My sister and
I joined the Order of Eastern Star. My sis was losing her hearing and
when checked found she had a large tumor
attached
to the base of her brain. She had an extensive operation and is doing
quite well, although partially paralyzed in the face.
After
my parents and one brother passed away, we sold the family farm and I
moved back to Ohio to be near my children and grandchildren. Daughter
Valerie married John Sharritts and they have two girls, Ashley, 17 and
Courtney,
13.
Val is a teacher at DeSales, John, a band director at Triad. Son Virgil
(nicknamed “Sarge”) is a veterinarian in Medina County and engaged
to a lovely vet, Silvi. She has had a very hard year after being
operated on for an aneurysm in the brain.
We
often visited Ohio when I was a child as my father’s parents were born
in Coshocton County. (They grew up eight miles apart, but never met
until they lived in Colorado.) All of the relatives we used to visit are
now gone, but I guess I have a few cousins around. My brother and I are
working on our genealogy and maybe I will find more cousins around here
some day. If you look like me, run!
My hobbies are art,
music and reading and I used to sew a lot. I would love to
travel, but my pets keep me home. I love animals and have, at the
moment, two dogs and four cats. And a partridge in my chimney. : ) I am
a collector and love anything Victorian. I even have a turret on my
house. My favorite flowers are roses, gladiolas and gardenias. I am so
blessed to have become a member of the Victorian Bouquets. And you
didn’t even blackball me because of my black thumb! Love you guys!